Would you rather Deep

Deep Would You Rather Questions

These deep would you rather questions are for slow conversations: a long dinner, a quiet drive, a couple getting to know each other, or friends who've run out of small talk. They ask about meaning, truth, love, memory and the person you're trying to become.

Every question is a live poll. Tap a side to vote, then see how everyone else voted. The interesting part is usually the reason behind your pick.

100 questions · tap a side to vote · see how everyone else picked

Deep would you rather questions about life and meaning

Big-picture choices about what makes a life feel worth it.

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Thought provoking would you rather questions about knowledge and truth

What you'd want to know, and what you might be better off not knowing.

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Deep would you rather questions for couples about love and connection

For partners and close friends who want to talk about how they love.

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Deep would you rather questions about time and memory

How you spend your years and what you hope to keep from them.

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Thought provoking would you rather questions about right and wrong

Mild, everyday ethics dilemmas where good people disagree.

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Deep would you rather questions for adults about who you are

Questions about your character and the person you're becoming.

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How you compare

Vote on a few questions and your results show up here.

How to play

  • Take one question at a time and let everyone finish their reasoning before moving on.
  • Couples: each of you writes down the other's likely answer first, then compare.
  • Follow every answer with one more question: when did you first start feeling that way?
  • At a dinner party, pick three questions and spread them across the meal instead of asking them all at once.
  • If a good argument changes your mind, say out loud what changed it.

Playing in a group? Read a question out loud, let everyone pick a side, then tap the one the room chose and see how it compares with everyone online.

Questions people ask

What is a deep would you rather question?

It's a question where your answer says something about your values. For example: would you rather be remembered by many people for a little while or by a few people for a very long time? There's no clever answer, only an honest one.

Are there deep would you rather questions for couples?

Yes. The love and connection section is written for partners, with questions like would you rather hear "I love you" every day or see it shown in small ways every day. Try guessing each other's answer before you vote.

What is a thought provoking would you rather question for adults?

Try this one: would you rather be judged only by your intentions or only by your results? It sounds simple until you think about how you judge other people.

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